1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,950 I opted to kind of work together and 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:05,130 make us stronger together rather than 3 00:00:05,140 --> 00:00:07,440 um try and pit each one against each 4 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:09,496 other . We weren't competing against 5 00:00:09,496 --> 00:00:11,860 each other , we're all on the same team 6 00:00:15,140 --> 00:00:17,950 for a time . I was one of the few women 7 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:21,740 um , flying airplanes and so I , 8 00:00:21,750 --> 00:00:24,083 rather than trying to exclude the women , 9 00:00:24,083 --> 00:00:26,194 which some ladies did in flying units 10 00:00:26,194 --> 00:00:28,250 at the time , um , there's a certain 11 00:00:28,250 --> 00:00:30,194 rite of passage that you had to go 12 00:00:30,194 --> 00:00:32,306 through , but um , I opted to kind of 13 00:00:32,306 --> 00:00:34,400 work together and make us stronger 14 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:37,090 together rather than um try and pit 15 00:00:37,090 --> 00:00:38,923 each one against each other . We 16 00:00:38,923 --> 00:00:41,090 weren't competing against each other , 17 00:00:41,090 --> 00:00:43,312 you know , we were all on the same team 18 00:00:43,312 --> 00:00:45,479 and regardless of gender or race , any 19 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:47,534 of those things were all in the same 20 00:00:47,534 --> 00:00:49,757 thing and , and we just become stronger 21 00:00:49,757 --> 00:00:49,460 when we help each other out , I really 22 00:00:49,460 --> 00:00:51,780 feel obligated and it is an obligation 23 00:00:51,780 --> 00:00:54,560 to , to pay afford whether um whatever 24 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:56,727 capacity , if I can mentor you in your 25 00:00:56,727 --> 00:00:58,727 professional development , if I can 26 00:00:58,727 --> 00:01:00,838 mentor you in your personal life if I 27 00:01:00,838 --> 00:01:03,004 can , if I can just be a listening ear 28 00:01:03,004 --> 00:01:05,227 when you need to vent , I've I've often 29 00:01:05,227 --> 00:01:08,240 done that and I get satisfaction out of 30 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:10,520 it too , knowing that people appreciate 31 00:01:10,530 --> 00:01:13,390 the time that it takes or the input 32 00:01:13,390 --> 00:01:15,980 that you have or just knowing that 33 00:01:15,980 --> 00:01:18,070 somebody might care . There's a lot 34 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:19,302 that I gain as well . 35 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:22,360 Yeah ,