1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,167 but I went to him for advice because I 2 00:00:02,167 --> 00:00:04,167 always had been and he gave me some 3 00:00:04,167 --> 00:00:06,111 interesting advice that I probably 4 00:00:06,111 --> 00:00:08,000 would not have done . And it just 5 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:09,450 didn't feel right , 6 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:16,070 mm hmm . At 7 00:00:16,070 --> 00:00:18,810 one point in my career I had a very 8 00:00:18,810 --> 00:00:21,910 well respected professor whom I went to 9 00:00:21,910 --> 00:00:24,740 for all advice and he was so bright and 10 00:00:24,740 --> 00:00:28,050 brilliant and wise . Um , I trusted him 11 00:00:28,050 --> 00:00:31,760 blindly . And at one point , um , it 12 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:33,970 was a personal situation that perhaps 13 00:00:33,970 --> 00:00:37,620 he didn't quite , I couldn't relate to 14 00:00:37,630 --> 00:00:39,963 being a new mob . That was my situation . 15 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,111 I went ahead and followed that advice 16 00:00:42,111 --> 00:00:44,222 and it turned out that um , it didn't 17 00:00:44,222 --> 00:00:45,980 quite go over very well and in 18 00:00:45,980 --> 00:00:47,980 hindsight , I wish I would have had 19 00:00:47,980 --> 00:00:50,147 other people that I bounce these ideas 20 00:00:50,147 --> 00:00:52,258 off of perhaps maybe not professional 21 00:00:52,258 --> 00:00:54,147 peers , but other moms who are in 22 00:00:54,147 --> 00:00:56,202 similar situations . Yeah . So now I 23 00:00:56,202 --> 00:00:59,320 have a library of a catalog if you will 24 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:01,264 of mentors to choose from and they 25 00:01:01,264 --> 00:01:03,431 don't all outrank me right . There's , 26 00:01:03,431 --> 00:01:06,310 there's a junior officers and the list 27 00:01:06,310 --> 00:01:07,810 of members who might trust 28 00:01:07,810 --> 00:01:10,230 wholeheartedly . I think we tend to 29 00:01:10,230 --> 00:01:12,397 think , oh , they have to be a general 30 00:01:12,397 --> 00:01:13,860 for them to know what's going on .